Wednesday, January 21, 2009

An Atrocity - The Khmer Rouge Regime

The oppression and exploitation of Khmer Rouge regime is filled with cruelty and inhumanity action. Even after the fall of the regime, all survivors struggled to start their lives anew but it was difficult till this very day. It is impossible to prevent the psychological trauma, fear and horror from permeating their daily lives. The trauma of the genocide extends more than thirty years as the memories of witnessing the horrors haunted the very core of the victims, children of survivors and even the perpetrators of the crime. No one in Cambodia was left untouched by a genocide that killed almost 25% of the entire population. For more thirty years, no formal justice system has been established to bring those leaders of the sadistic Khmer Rouge regime to trial.

Although the Khmer Rouge ended with the Vietnamese invasion of Phnom Penh, the Khmer Rouge’s policies of forced collectivization and social reconstructivism left behind a legacy that lingered long after its demise and a vastly uneducated and unskilled society, a displaced and traumatized nation, a population of widow and children and a country with landmines that even today continue to maim and kill. Worst of all, it left behind a legacy far from over that will likely to take generations to heal. Viciousness of this nature should not return into the Angkor territory as in any part of the world.

In short, the following best describe the instances of despair and hopelessness that tear the lives of the people then.

"No religious rituals, no religious symbols, no fortune tellers, no traditional healers, no paying respects to elders, no social status, no titles

No education, no training, no school, no learning, no science, no technology, no pens, no paper

No currency, no battering, no buying, no selling, no begging, no giving, no purses, no wallets

No human rights, no liberty, no courts, no judges, no laws, no attorneys

No communications, no public transportation, no private transportation, no traveling, no mailing, no inviting, no visiting, no faxes, no telephones

No social gatherings, no chitchatting, no jokes, no laughter, no music, no dancing

No romance, no flirting, no fornication, no dating, no wet dreaming, no masturbating, no naked sleepers, no bathers, no nakedness in showers, no love songs, no love letters, no affection

No marrying, no divorcing, no marital conflicts, no fighting, no profanity, no cursing

No shoes, no sandals, no toothbrushes, no razors, no combs, no mirrors, no lotion, no make up, no long hair, no braids, no jewellery, no soap, no detergent, no shampoo, no knitting, no embroidering, no colored clothes except black, no styles except pajamas, no wine, no palm sap hooch, no lighters, no cigarettes, no morning coffee, no afternoon tea, no snacks, no desserts, no breakfast, sometimes no dinner

No mercy, no forgiveness, no regret, no remorse, no second chances, no excuses, no complaints, no grievances, no help, no favours, no eyeglasses, no dental treatment, no vaccines, no medicines, no hospitals, no doctors, no disabilities, no social diseases, no tuberculosis, no leprosy

No kites, no marbles, no rubber bands, no cookies, no popsicle, no candy, no playing, no toys, no lullabies, no rest, no vacations, no holidays, no weekends, no games, no sports, no staying up late, no newspapers

No radio, no TV, no drawing, no painting, no pets, no pictures, no electricity, no lamp oil, no clocks, no watches

No hope, No life. A third of the people didn’t survive. The regime died." – Sarith Powin

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Gossiping and slandering are malicious

Gossip and rumours are simply “pure poison”. They often have the power to hurt not only the person who is the object of the gossip, but also the listener who believes the gossip. Gossip, in its most malicious form is attacking a person in a forum in which he/she is not present to defend himself/herself. In its more restrained form, gossip can be defined as sharing detrimental information with others who are neither part of the problem nor part of the solution. Gossiping and rumours stem from an evil motive to hurt the person that is being talked about and mold the truth into something entirely different.

Why must people evolve into a society that rejoices at making others their scapegoat in order to take their thoughts off their own downfalls? Can the human race learn to stop hurting others and start creating more beauty and love with words? How sad it is when gossips creates rumours and take on a life of their own…..What is most unfortunate and sad is that those very people who proclaim their love for God often indulge in gossiping and slandering without a blink of an eye. Where are their conscience and what happen to their moral and ethic values? Flush down the toilet bowl? I wonder????????

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The Last Lecture

"The Last Lecture" was written by Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carneige Mellon after he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The lecture he gave - "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams" wasn't about dying, it's about living - the importance of overcoming obstacles, enabling the dreams of others, seizing every moment because time is all you have and one day you may find that you have less than you think. In his book and talk, Randy Pausch combined the humour, inspiration and intelligence that made his lecture such a phenomenon and it is definitely a book that will be shared for generations to come. Randy Pausch (Oct. 23, 1960 - July 25, 2008) gave his last lecture at the university on 18th September 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. He lost his battle with pancreatic cancer on 25th July 2008. If you love to read... it is a MUST read, otherwise watch this video (1 hr 16 mins) and BE INSPIRED! The video has been viewed more than 8.4 million times.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ji5_MqicxSo